I am new to the city, how do I meet
Moving to a new environment can be very exciting and a great opportunity to
invent yourself in a way you truly desire. Along with learning new streets and
the closest Chinese delivery joint, meeting new friends and a new love can
prove to be a challenge.
With a little research you will you would be amazed at the amount of things
available socially to spice up your new life. With all the philosophers stating
that the internet and technology will be the end of human interaction, it's
seems to be that the opposite is evident. Social networking sites have brought
people from the past and present closer together regardless of where they live
in this world.
Today we have access to people all over the world and the opportunity to learn
new things and learn more about ourselves.
Some excellent resources to meet people are:
Meetup.com; a place to meet like minded individuals with a common interest. This
site allows you to take your passion and share it with others who can teach and
learn from you. The chance of meeting a love interest is much greater in this
situation than the local watering hole.
Online dating sites; of course this is my favorite way to meet interesting
people.: Many people believe that dating is about relationships and getting
married, when in fact, it can be done among friends as well. Enjoy meeting
people online and let them know your intentions are as friends first, which
eliminates any obligation or stress of attraction. Have fun, learn as much as
you can about people and learn more about what you want in a lover.
Volunteering; a great way to give back to your community and meet people who
enjoy the welfare of others. You would be surprised the quality of people you
will find during volunteering not to mention the networking you would gain in
the neighborhood. This would open many doors in your city for fundraisers,
galas, and other exciting city events. You can imagine the endless
Restaurants, bars, lounges; these are great places to meet the bartenders,
hosts, managers and owners. When you visit any venue the staff is there to help
you experience the best they can offer. This is a great opportunity to allow
them to enjoy providing the service to a great patron. Tip well, and bring new
people to these venues and consider yourself a regular. You would be surprised
at all the benefits they bestow on you for your loyalty and the great people
you meet through them. When you bring a date you will appreciate the VIP
treatment they will provide.
Get out there and find fun, friends and romance! Own your destiny!